5 Tips For Girls To Not Be Nervous During The First Date
The first date can be a thrilling experience, which makes you want to look perfect in front of your coveted men. Especially if during this time you and men coveted only greet each other in cyberspace. Chatting in social media and the real world will certainly be different. Not infrequently, it actually makes you so nervous and end up awkward when met directly. If you do not want to experience this, consider the following tips so as not to be awkward in the first date later.
1. Find the Right Place
Avoid choosing a dating location in a crowded place and too noisy. It would be unpleasant if you and he could not hear each other's talk. It does not have to be romantic, but choose a place where you can sit comfortably. Can be in coffee shops, even parks.
2. Give Questions
Want a fun and fun date? Keep the conversation going. You can lure him to tell stories by asking questions. But avoid the topic about the former, which makes you look too curious. Afterwards, you can ask them back to ask you a question.
3. Create a Fresh Joke
In order for a date not ending gloomy, you should prepare a material jokes or interesting stories. This topic can be from your experience or even spontaneous from the circumstances around. Do not be afraid to let him know about yourself through the funny stories. This will make you closer to each other.
4. Calculate Small Things
Paying a bill at a restaurant can also create an awkward moment, if you can not put yourself down. If the bill comes, do not be quiet and expect the paying him. She might be lazy with you. There is nothing wrong with taking the initiative to pay for food or tickets to watch. But, if he insists on paying all, you can treat him dessert afterwards. That way, you will be seen as a woman independent and not dependent on others.
5. Pay attention to the topic of conversation
Give him time to talk about his life. Whether it's family, pets, or hobbies. Pay attention to all his words, and act as if you are interested. In addition, avoid overly heavy conversation topics, such as religion or politics if you do not want to end up awkward. As much as possible, avoid conversations that can provoke debate. Raise the topic lightly and funny so you can laugh with it.
Okay, hopefully the tips above can be useful.
1. Find the Right Place
Avoid choosing a dating location in a crowded place and too noisy. It would be unpleasant if you and he could not hear each other's talk. It does not have to be romantic, but choose a place where you can sit comfortably. Can be in coffee shops, even parks.
2. Give Questions
Want a fun and fun date? Keep the conversation going. You can lure him to tell stories by asking questions. But avoid the topic about the former, which makes you look too curious. Afterwards, you can ask them back to ask you a question.
3. Create a Fresh Joke
In order for a date not ending gloomy, you should prepare a material jokes or interesting stories. This topic can be from your experience or even spontaneous from the circumstances around. Do not be afraid to let him know about yourself through the funny stories. This will make you closer to each other.
4. Calculate Small Things
Paying a bill at a restaurant can also create an awkward moment, if you can not put yourself down. If the bill comes, do not be quiet and expect the paying him. She might be lazy with you. There is nothing wrong with taking the initiative to pay for food or tickets to watch. But, if he insists on paying all, you can treat him dessert afterwards. That way, you will be seen as a woman independent and not dependent on others.
5. Pay attention to the topic of conversation
Give him time to talk about his life. Whether it's family, pets, or hobbies. Pay attention to all his words, and act as if you are interested. In addition, avoid overly heavy conversation topics, such as religion or politics if you do not want to end up awkward. As much as possible, avoid conversations that can provoke debate. Raise the topic lightly and funny so you can laugh with it.
Okay, hopefully the tips above can be useful.
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